Comments on: Feeling Lost? http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/ Open Source Personal Development Mon, 15 Mar 2010 16:50:40 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: adora http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/comment-page-1/#comment-18095 adora Sun, 28 Feb 2010 01:23:35 +0000 http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/#comment-18095 I am in a point where i asked myself what the purpose of my life is. I feel very lost. I just lost my job and i realized i don't have any real friends. I am in so much pain yet no one wants to listen.... I am in a point where i asked myself what the purpose of my life is. I feel very lost. I just lost my job and i realized i don’t have any real friends. I am in so much pain yet no one wants to listen….

]]> By: Derrick http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/comment-page-1/#comment-18066 Derrick Fri, 26 Feb 2010 03:07:27 +0000 http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/#comment-18066 Feeling lost has a healthy purpose. It may be your souls way of requesting for you to wake up to your life purpose. When there is a lack of life in multiple areas of your life, the opportunity is to find your significance by finding your purpose! There are many assessments that are available to help you wake-up to a greater sense of awareness and consciousness in your life-time. Especially if you are getting signs. Some are seeing 11:11, and other phenomena as clues to validate my opinion. Feeling lost has a healthy purpose. It may be your souls way of requesting for you to wake up to your life purpose.
When there is a lack of life in multiple areas of your life, the opportunity is to find your significance by finding your purpose!
There are many assessments that are available to help you wake-up to a greater sense of awareness and consciousness in your life-time.
Especially if you are getting signs. Some are seeing 11:11, and other phenomena as clues to validate my opinion.

]]> By: mea http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/comment-page-1/#comment-17297 mea Wed, 27 Jan 2010 11:25:43 +0000 http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/#comment-17297 I've read many articles on self help. but nothing seems to work up for me. I have joined a gym to help start a better day. For some time I feel good and happy but after a little time, I feel lost again. I am not able to work and study. Different sorts of thoughts keep coming to my mind. At office, I would just kill my time surfing the net or just walking all over the place. Sometimes I feel like quitting my job, sometimes feel like running away from everything and everyone and start new. I have lost friends, feel lot lonely. I tend to cut out from social events. Wondering what could I try to help myself out of it? I’ve read many articles on self help. but nothing seems to work up for me. I have joined a gym to help start a better day. For some time I feel good and happy but after a little time, I feel lost again. I am not able to work and study. Different sorts of thoughts keep coming to my mind. At office, I would just kill my time surfing the net or just walking all over the place. Sometimes I feel like quitting my job, sometimes feel like running away from everything and everyone and start new. I have lost friends, feel lot lonely. I tend to cut out from social events. Wondering what could I try to help myself out of it?

]]> By: Benjamin http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/comment-page-1/#comment-17177 Benjamin Wed, 20 Jan 2010 20:46:03 +0000 http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/#comment-17177 Good stuff mate . I agree that sleeping and eating healthy is very important. I would even add sports 2 times a week and yoga or daily meditation of 15 minutes (what is 15 minutes of your day, it sometimes saves you're emotional state ;-) ). cheers Good stuff mate . I agree that sleeping and eating healthy is very important. I would even add sports 2 times a week and yoga or daily meditation of 15 minutes (what is 15 minutes of your day, it sometimes saves you’re emotional state ;-) ).

cheers

]]> By: Carly http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/comment-page-1/#comment-5916 Carly Sun, 12 Apr 2009 04:36:29 +0000 http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/#comment-5916 Thanks alot for this article...I'm at a point in my life right now where I have no job, no friends in the physical area of where I live, I'm in a rut, in a relationship that is less than fulfilling and I'm about 5 months pregnant. So needless to say I could use some advice from an outside source. - Carly Thanks alot for this article…I’m at a point in my life right now where I have no job, no friends in the physical area of where I live, I’m in a rut, in a relationship that is less than fulfilling and I’m about 5 months pregnant. So needless to say I could use some advice from an outside source.

- Carly

]]> By: sixx http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/comment-page-1/#comment-2923 sixx Sun, 21 Dec 2008 10:06:31 +0000 http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/#comment-2923 I like the bottom up idea...seems like something I should consider doing...especially since I'm really started questioning my life at age 46...a bit late by "normal" standards, but at least before I die...its all good. I like the bottom up idea…seems like something I should consider doing…especially since I’m really started questioning my life at age 46…a bit late by “normal” standards, but at least before I die…its all good.

]]> By: Asher http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/comment-page-1/#comment-2892 Asher Fri, 12 Dec 2008 22:14:14 +0000 http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/#comment-2892 Good site, but I am confused. In earlier posts, you say that bug fixing is bad, but today you say, "let the bug fixing begin" do you think bug fixing is good or bad? Are the small things that you suggest here (ie diet and exercise) big things, or bugs? Good site, but I am confused. In earlier posts, you say that bug fixing is bad, but today you say, “let the bug fixing begin” do you think bug fixing is good or bad? Are the small things that you suggest here (ie diet and exercise) big things, or bugs?

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]]> By: Craig http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/comment-page-1/#comment-879 Craig Fri, 28 Mar 2008 01:32:53 +0000 http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/#comment-879 Hi Brad. I came across 30 sleeps only this week and its fantastic material. I was excited about the concept of social polarity but the Bottom-up growth idea drove me to post a comment. Its exactly what i've been doing for the past two years in the absence of a clear path. if you dont feel "prepared" for the "grand" calling you think your life will be about, then no-brainer independent improvements to your life will give you new opportunities, clearer thinking and stronger confidence for when you find something to really get passionate about. i'm currently working on eliminating a chronic need to please. i've given myself 30 days to try one particular method, accepting there will be days when it doesnt all go smoothly. the feedback from working on it intensely is vast. thanks and keep writing. Hi Brad.
I came across 30 sleeps only this week and its fantastic material. I was excited about the concept of social polarity but the Bottom-up growth idea drove me to post a comment.

Its exactly what i’ve been doing for the past two years in the absence of a clear path. if you dont feel “prepared” for the “grand” calling you think your life will be about, then no-brainer independent improvements to your life will give you new opportunities, clearer thinking and stronger confidence for when you find something to really get passionate about.

i’m currently working on eliminating a chronic need to please. i’ve given myself 30 days to try one particular method, accepting there will be days when it doesnt all go smoothly. the feedback from working on it intensely is vast.

thanks and keep writing.

]]> By: richiemond http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/comment-page-1/#comment-608 richiemond Sun, 23 Dec 2007 19:07:15 +0000 http://30sleeps.com/blog/2007/12/15/feeling-lost/#comment-608 I've been "wandering" a huge part of my 30 year existence. I too have been lost without a "mission statement" compbass, and have spent a significant amount of time on that mission/vision/(even) goals thingie. So, I asked myself that selfhelp question "what did i learn from the past 5 years that i can apply to improve my next 5 years?" and my honest certain answer is not having spent so much time on that mission/vision/goals thingie and instead just focused on "solid"/bottom-up personal development. If I had done that, at the very least, looking back I'll have a great framework. May not be in THE "best position" that a "real" passion might bring me, but definitely better than wandering land. I’ve been “wandering” a huge part of my 30 year existence. I too have been lost without a “mission statement” compbass, and have spent a significant amount of time on that mission/vision/(even) goals thingie.

So, I asked myself that selfhelp question “what did i learn from the past 5 years that i can apply to improve my next 5 years?” and my honest certain answer is not having spent so much time on that mission/vision/goals thingie and instead just focused on “solid”/bottom-up personal development.

If I had done that, at the very least, looking back I’ll have a great framework. May not be in THE “best position” that a “real” passion might bring me, but definitely better than wandering land.

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