by Brad Bollenbach, December 31, 2007

While flying back home from Christmas vacation last night, I had a “Tollegasm” on the plane, after reading the following passage. The context of this quote is that Eckhart Tolle is explaining the apparent conflict between living in the moment and achieving big, hairy, audacious goals. How can you achieve greatness if your attention is focussed only on things in the Now?

The great arises out of small things that are honored and cared for. Everybody’s life really consists of small things. Greatness is a mental abstraction and a favorite fantasy of the ego. The paradox is that the foundation for greatness is honoring the small things of the present moment instead of pursuing the idea of greatness. The present moment is always small in the sense that it is always simple, but concealed within it lies the greatest power. Like the atom, it is one of the smallest things yet contains enormous power. Only when you align yourself with the present moment do you have access to that power. Or it may be more true to say that it then has access to you and through you to this world.

– Eckhart Tolle, A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose

An average person is someone who thinks that the past and the future are more important than the present. Approach anxiety, procrastination, risk aversion, poor concentration, absent-mindedness, and virtually every other form of self-created misery are possible only when you let your thoughts and actions be dominated by something outside this eternal instant. When you direct your attention to the needs of this moment, every action unfolds into the field of intention. It’s hard to articulate the energy behind this flow, but you know it when you feel it.

It’s easy to sense when somebody’s living outside the present moment. When you talk to them, all they ever say is, “Oh yeah…Yeah…Uh huh…Cool…Haha…Yeah.” When you walk by them on the street, the look on their face adopts a kind of pedophilia: zoned out, morose, disconnected, an undercurrent of anger and frustration pushing its way out through their bulging eyes. They complain and criticize as if talk without action were something that mattered. And they spend a lot of time talking about a day that exists on nobody’s calendar: Someday.

Every big problem is really just a large collection of tiny problems grouped together and labeled. Success isn’t about doing big things, it’s about doing small things. When every fibre of your being is invested into solving this little problem in this little moment, you haven’t just increased your chances of reaching your goal–you’ve already achieved it.



Comments
J.F.H. on December 31st, 2007 at 12:55 am #

Yeah. Definitely a Tollegasm.

Living in the moment is something I’ve had trouble with for a while. Things are just so damn interesting when you think back on your exaggerated past; and so exciting when you imagine your inflated future…

;)
Love your stuff bud.

name on December 31st, 2007 at 1:03 am #

One thing about tolle is that I felt somewhat aimless/impulsive when trying his philosophy. Goals, Tolle & Schedules don’t seem to mix :P And when you see the man himself, he seems to be a very passive, feminine type.

Swede on December 31st, 2007 at 8:41 am #

Hehe, tolle means turd in Swedish :)

Love your blog, keep writing. It’s in my top 3, along Zen Habits and Tim Ferriss.

Brad Bollenbach on December 31st, 2007 at 11:03 am #

Cheers all.

@name:

Tolle isn’t suggesting you give up your goals, or completely ignore the past or the future. He’s offering ways to help find the balance between human and being.

Without the mind, we are non-functional. With too much mind, we are also non-functional.

@Swede:

Wow, if he were Swedish, he might have become enlightened much earlier. With a last name like “turd”, it would be hard not to. :)

PBG on December 31st, 2007 at 5:01 pm #

“the look on their face adopts a kind of _pedophilia_”

Pedophilia ? I hope it’s a typo :)

T on January 2nd, 2008 at 7:15 pm #

I have mixed feelings about Tolle and his books. If you are a Type A worrywart, living in the now sounds great. I however knew some people who didn’t think about the future at all, who lived totally in the now without fear of consequences. For them, the Tolle books were a disaster because they would misapply it and use it as an excuse to continue to be irresponsible and ignore responsibility.

rob on January 4th, 2008 at 12:42 am #

I’m reading Tolle right now and it’s exactly what I need. I can see if not working for some people. But definitely for others.

I really like J.F.H.’s comment of “exaggerated past and inflated future”…that’s dead on.

Brad Bollenbach on January 4th, 2008 at 1:52 pm #

@T:

I’m all for Whatever Works for You. Tolle has given me some huge frames for social skydiving. We’re all listening on different frequencies though, so different people will get completely different insights from the same sources.

By the way, if you had some alternatives to Tolle that you like, I’d be curious to hear about them, in case I don’t already know them. I’m a gourmand for experiences, and I like forming my own recipes for living using many different perspectives.

John Smith on January 9th, 2008 at 3:39 pm #

..pedophilia?

Lavon on March 5th, 2008 at 12:19 am #

…umm…yeah, me too…pedophilia?

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