Articles about Dating

by Brad Bollenbach

I learned that the richness of life is found in adventure… It develops self-reliance and independence. Life then teems with excitement. There is stagnation only in security.
– William Orville Douglas
The vast majority of guys that I’ve ever known–probably at least 90%–will do almost anything to get laid. They’ll sleep with girls they aren’t attracted to, [...]



by Brad Bollenbach

Any website that allows people to communicate with each other is a dating website. While it may serve other primary functions, and may even include a signup notice indicating that the site is not meant for that purpose, it all comes down to screwing. In fact, I’ll know 30 sleeps has “made it” when members [...]



by Brad Bollenbach

(Warning: Spoilers ahead. :)
Fiction often pays truth a visit. Great stories expand your reality, encourage you to think about the world in new ways, and even provide inspiring role models. Whether you draw your inspiration from real-life strangers or imaginary icons, it all comes down listening to the voices that improve your results.
Rhett Butler is, [...]



by Brad Bollenbach

The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and all science. He to whom this emotion is a stranger, who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe, is as good as dead: his eyes are closed.
– Albert Einstein
I’m pretty geeky. I [...]



by Brad Bollenbach

Don’t ask yourself what the world needs; ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.
– Howard Thurman
Life is meant to be an adventure. If your life is anything less than interesting and inspiring to other people, you’re doing something [...]



by Brad Bollenbach

You’re out a party one night and you meet this amazing girl. She’s every flavour of feminine you desire: tall, thin, athletic, beautiful, articulate, charismatic. When she smiles, you feel it in your chest. After spending the night ping-ponging the sexual tension, you exchange contact info and a second date is almost assured.
Sure enough, a [...]



by Brad Bollenbach

I really wish I was less of a thinking man and more of a fool not afraid of rejection.
– Billy Joel

You aren’t attractive enough. You aren’t smart enough. You aren’t cool enough. You aren’t man enough. Your idea won’t work. You’re too short. You’re too tall. You’re too chunky. You don’t have enough money. I [...]



by Brad Bollenbach

In Part I of this two-part series, I discussed my own discovery of, and initial experiences in, the seduction community.
In this article, I’ll talk more about a typical night in the field, the experiences I had with some of the women I met while sarging, and mix in some lessons I learned about women that [...]



by Brad Bollenbach

Though this blog is intended to cover a wide range of life hacking topics in the realm of health, wealth, and relationships, for both men and women, there’s at least one more subject I want to cover while we’re still on the theme of getting better with women.

When it comes to pursuing something that interests [...]



by Brad Bollenbach

The 2007 World Series of Poker Main Event recently concluded in Las Vegas, with winner Jerry Yang besting a field of 6,358 players and walking away with a cool $8,250,000. Not bad for a guy who only started playing two years ago.
Poker is a fascinating game. On the surface, it seems like such a simple, [...]